Wednesday, 4 December 2013

all fun and games until someone loses their mind

So we've all had a good old snigger and giggle about the Oldest Swingers In Town, who - if you need reminding - are now a couple, living in the houses which are either side of us.

Oh, they get drunk and flirt, and have brutish (if short-lived) sex! How very hilarious!!

Well, things have taken a turn for the more serious - last weekend we had to call out the City Council's Noise Pollution Control people on a Saturday night because of RIDICULOUSLY LOUD MUSIC from Her at 1am. Although the music stopped as the council people showed up, they did hear it as they got out of the car, so the following week they wrote to our neighbour informing her that a complaint had been made.

Which is why it was so surprising to have to call the council again last weekend - are they really that stupid or are they just incredibly vindictive? Again, the music stopped as the council pulled up outside.

Our neighbours know that we have a toddler and they know about my MS. Furthermore, I've been explicit with Him about the fact that, if I have a bad night's sleep, my level of disability dramatically increases on the following day.

Basically, they might be having a laugh but they're genuinely harming my health.

So why would they continue to do this, unless they just really don't give a shit?

This last weekend we have set up a bed in our downstairs study and have continued to sleep down there - it's pretty cosy but at least we're both sleeping well.

(DON'T WORRY: Obviously the monitor linked to our Daughter's bedroom is cranked up super-loud when we're downstairs)

My wife and I have been irritable and snappy with each other. And we're starting to hate living in our house because the late-night discos are continuing most days - now with additional shouting .


Meanwhile, in other news, I FRICKING LOVE THE INTERWEBZ.

From when I was growing up, one of my favourite bands ever has been Throwing Muses. They were on the 4AD label and toured the UK with Pixies in the 80s.

Obviously Pixies went on to become this big (you could say "Gigantic"... but don't) culturally significant thing, while Throwing Muses continued to plough a lonely furrow - possibly because they were a three-quarters female rock band in a predominantly male scene, mostly because they were writing joyously gnarly and twisted art-rock songs which depicted the internal world of Kristin Hersh, a teenage single mother who had bi-polar episodes leading to at least one suicide attempt before the age of 20.

Sounds like fun, huh?

Well, I LOVED them - the songs were constantly changing gears, so clever and inventive and not like anything I'd ever heard before. Wherever I went after that I always carried with me a C-90 cassette tape with Surfer Rosa on one side and House Tornado on the other - that's a stone-cold STEVEDOMINO FACT.

Anyway, Kristin Hersh continues to be a force for good in the universe, so she's one of the 'famous-ish people' I follow on Twitter.

The other day she posted a funny little statement and I responded - in what I thought was a charming and witty manner:

She must have agreed because she FAVORITED my tweet (that should be "favourited" obviously, but we'll let it go for the sake of Twitter).

Obviously I kept my reaction super-cool:

And I got a LOL (and a kiss and a hug) from one of my true musical heroes - it was a good day.

Made even better when my first blog for was published later that evening. This is something which the legendary Jackie Zimmerman had put me up for, and even though it's an American site, they liked my stuff enough to let me have a play.

My first post is called The Anniversary Waltz.

Be not afeared: posts to this blog will continue in their own irregulary lackadaisical fashion.


honeysuckle said...

How awful (neighbours not music). Noise can be incredibly disruptive and I hope that the situation is speedily sorted.

stevedomino said...

actually had a bit of a breakthrough last night - the guy who lives in the other house next to Her came round to see us. he's been having the same issues with noise (he's also been banging on her wall!) so we gave him the number to call at the council.

thanks for commenting, i promise i'll stop writing about this soon!

Ms. CrankyPants said...

1. HIDEOUS about the neighbors.
2. You witty old charmer, you.
3. Pretty sure it should, indeed, be "favorited."
4. AMERICA RULES, #1!!!!!!!!!! Also, AMERICA, F*CK YEAH!
5. Congrats on your new blog.
6. Happy to hear you'll keep on keeping on here. I was scairt for a moment.
7. I am being asked to type "GYNOWER" to prove I'm not a robot before your crazy blog will accept my comment. Not surprisingly, GYNOWER is amusing me.

stevedomino said...

ah cranky, you have been missed!

'a bunch of shit' (in your other comment) doesn't sound great, hope all is well with you.


(PS it's definitely FAVOURITED ;) )

Ms. CrankyPants said...

Thank you - I've missed being here!

"A bunch of shit" sounds a lot more ominous than it was/is: work and...a new kitten. Who knew kittens were so TIRING and that our current cats would HATE the poor thing?